How can we get kids to listen without yelling?
I guess we are all guilty of the fact that we have yelled or shouted at our children at some point in our lives or it may even be a routine for some of us. We resort to yelling or nagging when our simple techniques fail. This seems to be the only possible solution and with a sure shot success rate. However, a " Command and Control" attitude may work in the moment but will never be the long term solution of the child's behavior as yelling doesn't really help them focus on what you want them to do. More often than not children misbehave if they do not get age-appropriate attention in positive ways. Measures to avoid yelling; Set limits or boundaries (Example: You can play till 7 pm). If a limit really upsets them we can try to negotiate a bit but not too much (in the example above: Play time can be extended to 7:15 but not beyond) Try talking to your child about his/her feelings regarding a particular issue and validating them if possible (Example: ...